I'm your average, every day, husband, father, employee, friend and fledgling entrepreneur!
I'm not famous, although I've been on TV a couple of times in my past.
I'm not rich, but I do my best to provide my family with the things I never had growing up.
I love exotic sports cars, but you won't see me flaunting them around, hell, I still own a Fiero and proudly drive it...well, when it's running.
I'm a life-long friend to many and cherish those relationships.
I'm basically you or a close facsimile of you. I want to be free of burdens and that nine-to-five go nowhere job that keeps me from spending more time with my family, watching them grow and keeping us from exploring this great world.
At least, this is what I believe in, I hope these words and impressions heighten your awareness to how many others have the same desires as you.
Think about it, we're a world of 7.97 billion people, some of us have to want the same things in life. I'm here to share a path that will help you, along with thousands of other people like you and me acheive their desires!
Four in the morning came without a warning... Well, actually, 4:20AM, January 8th, 2020 to be precise. This is when I was awoken by something that would change my life...forever!
The previous night I had hugged and kissed my wife and kids goodnight before going to bed. That night, I fell asleep with no cares or concerns, and to my knowledge no stress or worries. That next morning, "Pop!" I heard it, I felt it, it woke me instantly from my sleep. What had just happened? I had never felt or had an experience like this. Next thing I know, there's a shooting pain down my side and I'm face down on my bed writhing in pain. As quickly as the pain came it went away but it was followed my a numbness and tingling in my legs.
My first thought, "Oh my God, I've just had a stroke!" My second thought, "I don't want to wake my wife up and worry her so, I will take myself to the emergency room."
As I drove to the E.R. all kinds of things ran through my head...mostly, I was still just trying to process what happened. As I pulled up to the E.R. my phone rang, it was my wife. She woke up early and saw that I was gone and called to track me down.
wife... "Where are you?"
me... "I'm just parking at the E.R. getting ready to check my self in."
wife... "What? What's wrong?"
me... "I'm not sure but, I think I just had a stroke and I need to make sure I'm ok."
wife... "Why didn't you wake me up?"
me... "I didn't want to worry you or interrupt your morning routine."
wife... "I'll be there as soon as possible."
me... "No need, I don't think it was that serious. I will be fine."
Four in the morning came without a warning... Well, actually, 4:20AM, January 8th, 2020 to be precise. This is when I was awoken by something that would change my life...forever!
The previous night I had hugged and kissed my wife and kids goodnight before going to bed. That night, I fell asleep with no cares or concerns, and to my knowledge no stress or worries. That next morning, "Pop!" I heard it, I felt it, it woke me instantly from my sleep. What had just happened? I had never felt or had an experience like this. Next thing I know, there's a shooting pain down my side and I'm face down on my bed writhing in pain. As quickly as the pain came it went away but it was followed my a numbness and tingling in my legs.
My first thought, "Oh my God, I've just had a stroke!" My second thought, "I don't want to wake my wife up and worry her so, I will take myself to the emergency room."
As I drove to the E.R. all kinds of things ran through my head...mostly, I was still just trying to process what happened. As I pulled up to the E.R. my phone rang, it was my wife. She woke up early and saw that I was gone and called to track me down.
wife... "Where are you?"
me... "I'm just parking at the E.R. getting ready to check my self in."
wife... "What? What's wrong?"
me... "I'm not sure but, I think I just had a stroke and I need to make sure I'm ok."
wife... "Why didn't you wake me up?"
me... "I didn't want to worry you or interrupt your morning routine."
wife... "I'll be there as soon as possible."
me... "No need, I don't think it was that serious. I will be fine."
...The next thing I remember was slowly waking up, groggy, in and out of consciousness and darkness, voices in the distance, and intubated so I could breathe during the medication wear down (not a pleasant experience or feeling. I'm sure some of you know exactly what I'm talking about.)
At this moment, is when I realized, my "pop" was more serious than I thought or could comprehend.
Over the next several days I went from post-op to ICU and then to the patient floor where I recovered, gained my strength back and relearned to walk from the artery extraction in my leg. During this time, I received several visits from my thoracic surgeon and cardiologist. I learned that I received a second surgery while I was being repaired for the main problem. I also received an arterial bypass. Wow, two-for-one!